This past weekend, we at Ascension Parish bid
farewell to our beloved pastor, Father Larry McNally, as he ends his 12 years
at Ascension, and heads to St. Matthias in Chicago’s Lincoln Square
neighborhood to be pastor there. (Interestingly, the years he was Ascension's pastor is the same number of the tribes of Israel and the apostles.)
Back in March, as the time for his departure grew closer and
closer, Father Larry, in his weekly bulletin letter, said a local newspaper
reporter was going to do a story on his departure, and was looking for a few
parishioners to share with him. I gladly
volunteered for this opportunity to offer tribute to Father Larry. That piece was published in The Wednesday Journalearlier in June.
I typed up 2-3 pages of thoughts on Father Larry to give the
reporter plenty of material to use. Because of
limitations of space, not everything could be included. But to give a final farewell tribute to Father
Larry, I share from the content of what I sent here.
The one thing about Father Larry that stands out to me from
his time at Ascension Parish is his pastoral nature, which I saw on full
display in my involvement in the Religious Education (RE) ministry. He makes a point from time to time to visit the Religious
Education classes. He made arrangements to come soon after Confirmation for the class of 2014 to talk with the recently confirmed teens about their experience. Every Lent, he comes to have the young people experience the sacrament of reconciliation with him. Later on in the RE year, I asked him to come to my class, and when an initial date we set didn’t
work for him, he made every effort to arrange a different one, as I could tell
he really wanted to be present. We did a show-and-tell during the class he came, and he even shared something special to him.
And when the Confirmation students have their monthly preparation meetings, he comes by to visit with them, fielding questions, and offering his spiritual insights, showing up at every meeting, except one that fell when he was on an annual outing in Wisconsin.
I remember when the 2014 class had their first preparation
meeting back in December 2013. Before the
DRE started the formal part of the meeting, Father Larry opened up the floor
for questions. Right away, someone asked
him why God allows evil and suffering if He’s all good. It was a serious question, but Father Larry
was ready, and he gave it a solid answer.
One thing he said in response was the example of the tornado that had
just happened in Washington, IL. This
disaster brought out the good in people as many aided in the
recovery efforts.
Throughout the preparation process for the Class of 2014, through
all their preparation meetings, and then after the Confirmation retreat at
Brookfield Zoo, Father Larry made a point to be present to the students,
encouraging them in the process of their preparation for this sacrament. At Mass on the Sunday evenings of the meeting
dates, he used his homily as an opportunity to speak to the young people about
what Confirmation means for them.
As for his homilies in general, he uses great, and sometimes
humorous, stories in his homilies to help drive home the insights in the
liturgy. He uses a variety of interesting
stories for his Easter Vigil homily, like the time he got locked out. Then, one year on the Feast of Ascension, he
told a story about when he booked a room at the Grand Hotel on Mackinac Island.
There was also the time when, in one of his homilies, he
showed a newspaper—a technique he learned from a seminary professor—with a
story about a cover-up of sexual abuse by priests. He was apologetic about the conduct of his
brother priests. It was something
profound to hear him honestly acknowledge this situation, and to own it, in a
sense.
He shows his pastoral nature with the younger ones among us,
too. Every May come the First Communion
Masses. After the gifts have been
brought to the altar and the altar has been prepared, Father Larry walks to the
pews where the first communicants are seated with their families, gathers them
together, and leads them up to the altar, where they stand behind him as he
says the Eucharistic Prayer. Last year,
May 2014, I was at one of the First Communion Masses that happened to be on the
weekend of the 4th Sunday of Easter, which is also referred to as
Good Shepherd Sunday. By leading the
children up to the altar, Father Larry gives a beautiful image of our Good
Shepherd. When I witnessed this last
year, it touched me so greatly, almost to the point of tears.
He has a good, healthy sense of humility. There was one night I had a dream in which he
made an appearance. The next time I saw
him after Mass, I told him this had happened, and the first words out of his mouth
were, “Oh no, a nightmare!”, in a tone that suggested he didn’t want to make
too much of the fact he was in my dream.
Another time, when he was announcing that he was going to help teach one
of the RE classes, he used that same tone of voice to say that they were really
scraping the bottom of the barrel by picking him to teach.
Father Larry also knows how to have fun, even beyond his (in)famous puns. He never passes up a good opportunity to
acclaim his White Sox pride, or to kid around with those displaying their Cubs
pride. This got particularly interesting
one time when, as part of the Ascension School Centennial Celebration block
party, he went on the dunk tank seat in White Sox paraphernalia. A kid so frustrated he couldn’t hit the target with the ball finally pushed it and down went Father Larry. While walking around the courtyard dripping
wet, he met a very distinguished guest—none other than former IL Governor Pat
Quinn.
At the end of the 2013-2014 Religious Education year, at the
catechist appreciation brunch, the entertainment was one of the sisters from
Late Nite Catechism. Father Larry was
present, and I can still remember how red his face turned from laughing at
Sister’s jokes. He was having fun with
that woman! He definitely knows how to
laugh.
He never ceases to express his appreciation for our
participation in the life of the Church.
Every time he celebrates Mass, when he comes out before the assembly
before the opening procession, he always thanks the people for coming, whether a nice summery day, or a wintry day with a raging snowstorm. In doing so, he acknowledges that we aren’t
robots who arrive at church at the press of a button, but recognizes the effort
we make in the midst of everything going on in our lives to come to church to
worship the Lord with each other. Even
though there is an obligation, he doesn’t presume upon that, and makes sure to
express his appreciation for our coming to be present with the Lord and one
another.
He has had good rapport with people at our parish, enjoying good
conversation with people in the church entrance after Mass. In June of last year, when Ascension was
featured on the Sacred Spaces House of Worship Tour, Father Larry was out in
front telling visitors about the features out there. The volunteer helping check visitors in at
Ascension pointed out that Father Larry kept waving to people who drove by the
church, as there are many he knows in the community.
Father Larry has also affirmed me in personal ways. Back in May 2012, when I had come home for
the summer from college, I opened a letter envelope from Ascension. Inside, I found a typed letter from Father
Larry, asking me to serve on committee that would help plan and run the
Theology on Tap speakers’ series at Ascension that summer. He said at the top he had been “snookered” by
the Archdiocese’s Office for Young Adult Ministry, not aware that when he
agreed for Ascension to host, that we would have to run it. He then added a handwritten note at the
bottom suggesting this would be a good opportunity for me. I agreed to help out. After our first committee meeting, Father
Larry’s concern over doing this relaxed into delight that many of us young
adults had so eagerly pitched in to help, with all our creative ideas. Being part of Theology on Tap was one of the
best faith formation experiences I ever had, not to mention a great way to
spend a few summer Sunday evenings.
After graduating from college, I was struggling with some
issues as I started out in my career life.
I asked Father Larry if I could meet with him, and he carved out a time
in his schedule for me. During the
course of our conversation, he urged me to make good use of all the talents and
skills I have in some kind of work, even drawing from his own life
experiences. Hearing those words from
him spurred me on more than when I had heard such sentiments from anyone else
during those first few months after college graduation.
There was one other great affirmation I received from Father
Larry. It was the day that the
Confirmation Class of 2014 received the sacrament back in October of last
year. I had been out with others during
the day, and was not present at the Confirmation Mass. In the evening, after I had finished dinner,
I decided to go for a walk to Ascension, to see if I could catch Bishop Kane,
who had confirmed me back in 2005, and was there for the class of 2014. As I approached the church, I looked over to
the side entrance by the parking lot, and saw a group of people standing
there. Lo and behold, the group included
Father Larry and Bishop Kane. After
greeting the Bishop, and exchanging a few words with him, Father Larry then
told him about how involved I was in Church ministries, saying that Bishop
Kane’s confirmation of me had “worked”.
It was an amazing moment in which I could take stock of how I had grown
in my faith life since the day I stood before Bishop Kane to receive the
sacrament, and where that path had taken me, even to participate in the
formation of those who had just been confirmed that evening.
This past weekend, Father Larry celebrated his last Masses as Ascension pastor
this past weekend, and it was one of those few
times that Mass was an emotional experience. I went up to Father Larry as he walked into Church right as 7:30 Mass was about to start, and told
him that it was time for me to say goodbye, but that it would take an hour to
do so: I would use the Mass liturgy as my farewell to him,
because no matter what circumstances are before us, the liturgy is what God
gives us through His Church as our prayer back to Him for whatever is on our hearts.
I’m certainly going to miss Father Larry, because he has had
such a good presence at Ascension as our pastor. In fact, it’s kind of hard for me to picture Ascension
without him, because I associate him so strongly with Ascension. But I take
comfort that we are part of the Body of Christ, which transcends all time and
space, spanning Earth and Heaven, which we celebrate every week at Mass. And so we shall continue together, even in
separate geographic locations, on this Earthly pilgrimage, as we await the day
we join together in Heaven before God. And as he has said he shall always pray for us at Ascension, I shall unceasingly pray for him, especially that he will faithfully do the work God has for him as pastor of St. Matthias.
I also cherish an adage that I encountered a couple of times
during the festivities held throughout the weekend to honor Father Larry: “Don’t
cry because it’s over, but smile that it happened”. Even in the midst of wistfulness, I am
definitely smiling, knowing how blessed all of us are at Ascension Parish that we had
Father Larry as our pastor for these past 12 years.
P.S. There was a Variety Show held on Saturday, with a great collection of acts in tribute to Father Larry. Here's a list of a few more songs that I feel befit this occasion, if you care to take some time to listen to them, as a few more for the road:
"It's Time to Say Goodbye"
"Don't Cry for Me, Argentina"
"Amigos para Siempre"
"The Circle of Life"
"My Place in this World"
"No Longer Strangers"
Father Larry (in red shirt) singing "Getting to Know You" at the Variety Show held on Saturday |
Father Larry at his last Mass at Ascension as pastor, in a green vestment, seated in the presider's chair, just to the right of the Chi-Rho (XP) |
Father Larry bows his head as Deacon Joe Walsh, to the left of him, leads the congregation gathered in a farewell blessing for Father Larry |
"It's Time to Say Goodbye"
"Don't Cry for Me, Argentina"
"Amigos para Siempre"
"The Circle of Life"
"My Place in this World"
"No Longer Strangers"